Before i decided to create this blog and carry on my great passion for human relationships, i always wanted to help people, assist them, be nice to people, and above all consider myslef a friend to every person i meet in my life; being old, or young, black or white, Muslim, jewish, christian, male or female..... Why simply because i always believed that there is nothing worth in life more than having a good and an enduring relationship with people.
I have discovered throughout my past 7 years that most of my life has been concentrated on a machine, and that is the Computer. These years have been almost computeralized in all its apsects to the extent that my human interaction with people started to degrade.
I have always been hearing this friend of mine telling me " Houssna are we becoming like a machine" and i would be asking her always why are you saying this.... ??? She would go like this:" the first thing we do when we wake up is to turn on our computers, work and study and write and chat and talk to people and the last thing we do before we sleep is to turn off our computer..; So basically our daily life is related to a machine that is driving us to loose our Physcial- human interaction.
When i thought of what she has been telling me and other friends of ours, i felt that she is right... but i related that to distance and the fact that we are in a country that is not ours, which neccesistaes the use of computers all day long to stay in touch with people....
Yet, our arrival to Morocco, made us feel that it not a question of distance, but it is rather a matter of atittude, a need, a must to do aspect that we cant get rid of.
Our work need us to be on a daily basis with a computer in hand, even during weekend. Our relationships with people ( friendships, dating, and even marriages) nowdays are relying on MSN, Yahoo messenger, SKYPE, emails, and many other technical tools that have been making it easier for us to get in touch with our friends, and relatives, yet depriving us from the entertainement of having a physical contact with these people.
Thus, i decided to use techonology to help us get back the human ties that were lost, help us understand more about ways of improving our social ties , by understanding more about our lives, our attitudes, our behaviors, our entourage....
I decided to create this blog to help myslef and everybody else understand more about human relationships and interactivity. To help us all achieve a better place to live , to pave the road for us all to get acquinted with more techniques for having a happy life.
How many of us write in their to do list for the week... Meeting with friends?? Coffee with family? dinner with my boyfriend-girlfriend? lunch with my wife-husband? visiting my grandmother?..... I personally find myslef unable to do it?and i always purposely relate that to the busy schedule of my work and the non stop professional duties that are making me always in front of a machine..... But that is not really the reason? and i am sure that this is not your reaon as well....
So this blog, will help us all draft our to do list for every week with at least a 30 to 40 % personal attitude that aims to strenghten our social and Human relationships with each other.
Good Luck,
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