How Happy is your goal? a simple statement that contains a valuable asset of information within it, why?
Well first of all, lets go back to our first step : " Defining a goal" and lets all agree that Knowing your goal will make it easier for you to achieve it, simply because " When people set goals, they will not choose to do anything which is not conducive to the achievement of that goal.
So now that each one of us has already defined his /her goal when it comes to streghtening Human relations, we need to study that goal. We need to see its horizons. We need to define its possibility of making us Happy.
Remember that Goals are thoughts and that Good thoughts achieve good results and Bad thoughts achieve bad results and none of us want to achive bad resutls, that is why we need to be sure of the goal that we want to achieve and how happy it will make us.
A friend of mine is always reminding me that Life should not always be focused on making other people happy, but it needs to focus on making you happy as well. However, i have always been stating that in every aspect of our life, we need people. We need them arround us to make us feel social, we need people arround us to make us feel loved, We need people arround us to encourage us to reach our goals, and we need people arround us to help us strenghten our human relationships. So basically, there is nothing bad in sacrificing part of your life, week, or a day in making people smile, happy, and feel good about themslves. That is of course without forgetting the major happiness that needs to be present and that is " Your Happiness".
Therefore, the second step in building a good human relations in today's world, after defining your goal is to make sure that your goal will make you happy. If not, then that goal is not based on a healthy thought and will result in an unhelathy goal and therefore a total unhappiness.
So lets build our human relationships on a Happy goal :)
